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Ryan Holiday’s Bastrop bookshop

Ryan and Samantha Holiday’s independent bookstore on Main Street, home to the Banned Books Lending Library. Here is a fan’s photo essay from a recent visit.

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Ryan Holiday

The obstacle is the way — ego is the enemy — stillness is the key

A fan tribute to the author who put ancient Stoicism back into millions of hands — through The Obstacle Is the Way, the Daily Stoic, and a little bookshop down the road from us in Bastrop.

See him live

Upcoming events

He’s touring Daily Stoic Live for Wisdom Takes Work — the next few dates. Tickets go to the official sellers.

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Auckland, New Zealand
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Sydney, Australia
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Melbourne, Australia
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Brisbane, Australia
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A word from your neighbors

Our third pillar

For years this little corner of the web has kept two fan sites we're quietly proud of — austen.com for Jane Austen and firth.com for Colin Firth. Two pillars: one for the page, one for the screen.

Ryan Holiday is our third pillar — and this one is personal. We're his neighbors. We live out here on the shores of Cedar Creek, just outside Bastrop, and we spend more time in The Painted Porch than we probably should admit — leaving each time with a book we didn't plan to buy.

So this is a fan's thank-you: for turning Marcus Aurelius, Seneca and Epictetus into something a busy person can actually live by, and for betting on a bookstore in a small Texas town. And a small, hopeful ask — if you're ever up for it, Ryan, we'd love to have you on a podcast. We run the same Shure SM7B setup you do, right here by the creek. The kettle's on.

Featured · Ego is the enemy

The Odyssey and the enemy called ego

One of the great warnings against ego in all of ancient literature — and Ryan tells it better than anyone.

▶ “12 Stoic Lessons from The Odyssey” — Daily Stoic. For the long version, see Ryan's full Odyssey conversation with Rich Roll.

Odysseus has just pulled off the impossible. He's blinded the Cyclops, Polyphemus, and slipped out of the cave — and he did it under a false name. When the giant roars for help, he can only bellow that “Nobody” has hurt him, so no one comes. Odysseus is away clean. Nobody knows who did this.

And then ego wins. Safe on his ship, he cannot resist the credit. He turns and shouts his real name across the water — let it be known it was Odysseus. Now the Cyclops knows exactly whom to name in his prayer. And Polyphemus happens to be the son of Poseidon.

That one need for recognition costs him ten more years from Ithaca. The desire for attention, for credit for what we've done, drags us into more trouble than we could ever have bargained for. It would be wonderful if life were easy. It isn't — and the obstacle, more often than we'd like to admit, is us.

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Fifteen books · two great series

The Books

The Obstacle · Ego · Stillness trilogy made Stoicism modern. The four-book Stoic Virtues series — courage, discipline, justice and wisdom — completed the map.

2016

Ego Is the Enemy

How the thing that gets in your way is usually you. “Ego is stolen. Confidence is earned.”

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2019 · Completes the trilogy

Stillness Is the Key

The lost art of being calm, present and unhurried in a frantic age — mind, spirit and body.

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2016 · with Stephen Hanselman

The Daily Stoic

366 meditations on wisdom, perseverance and the art of living — one page a day. The book behind the newsletter and the podcast.

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2021 · Stoic Virtues I

Courage Is Calling

Fortune favors the brave — the first of the four cardinal virtues.

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2022 · Stoic Virtues II

Discipline Is Destiny

Self-control and temperance — the power of saying no to yourself.

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2024 · Stoic Virtues III

Right Thing, Right Now

Justice, character and integrity — good values, good character, good deeds.

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Also on the shelf

Trust Me, I'm Lying (2012) · Growth Hacker Marketing (2013) · Perennial Seller (2017) · Conspiracy (2018) · Lives of the Stoics (2020, with Stephen Hanselman) · The Daily Dad (2023) · and The Daily Stoic Journal.

See all the books & order them →   The Painted Porch reading list →

On YouTube · Daily Stoic

Watch a little Stoicism

The Daily Stoic channel is one of the largest homes for Stoicism on YouTube — walk-and-talk video essays, “watch this when life gets hard” meditations, and numbered lessons drawn straight from Marcus, Seneca and Epictetus. A few to start with:

Watch This When Life Gets Too Hard — reading The Daily Stoic
12 Stoic Lessons That Will Immediately Change Your Life
Let go of labels. Transform your life.

See this year's videos →   The Daily Stoic channel →

Three hours, well spent

The deep dive

If you want the whole story in one sitting, Ryan sat down with Mark Manson for a near-three-hour “Comprehensive Guide to Stoicism” on the SOLVED podcast — from Zeno on the shipwreck to Marcus Aurelius on the throne. It's the best single on-ramp we know of.

“Stoicism (ft. Ryan Holiday), Solved” · with Mark Manson · 2h 53m

The road map

OriginsAncient Greece after Alexander — and Zeno, the shipwrecked merchant who founded Stoicism.
The four virtuesCourage · Temperance (Discipline) · Justice · Wisdom — the spine of the whole system.
The RomansCato the martyr, Seneca the conflicted, Epictetus the freed slave, Marcus the emperor.
TodayStoicism and modern psychology (the CBT link), and the revival Ryan helped lead.

A story we can't stop thinking about

Diogenes tracks mud into Plato's house

Here's one Ryan tells on that SOLVED episode. Diogenes the Cynic — the philosopher who lived in a barrel and rejected every convention of polite society — walks into Plato's house and starts stomping across the fine carpets with muddy feet. “I am trampling on Plato's vanity,” he announces. And Plato, unbothered, replies: “Yes — with a vanity of your own.”

Not just teacher and rival — frenemies, needling each other over dinner. And that's the part that gets you: this whole tradition survived because a handful of people wrote it down and one copy made it through. The ancient world was somehow both far bigger — more people, more happening — and far smaller than we picture. These giants knew each other. They ate at the same tables.

— as told by Ryan Holiday on SOLVED with Mark Manson; the exchange comes down to us from Diogenes Laërtius

The Daily Stoic Podcast · last 30 days

Recent episodes

A short Stoic meditation nearly every day, plus a longer conversation most weekends. Here's the recent run of interview episodes (as of late August 2026):

Aug 15The David Cross EpisodeInterview
Aug 13The Odyssey's Biggest Moral Questions — with Rich RollInterview
Aug 11Let Them Talk — the discipline nobody talks about, with Codie SanchezInterview
Aug 8Stop Judging People. Go Meet Them. — with Peter SantenelloInterview
Aug 6The Epictetus Lesson Kyle Carpenter Lives By — with the Medal of Honor recipientInterview
Aug 5The Marcus Aurelius Quote Tom Junod Can't ForgetInterview
Aug 15 American Heroes Everyone Should Know — with historian Ty SeiduleInterview
Jul 29How To Think For Yourself In A World Full Of Lies — with David PakmanInterview
Jul 26Kate Bowler Challenges Stoicism's Most Famous IdeaInterview

Between them, daily meditations like “11 Things Stoics Never Do,” “Who Was Marcus Aurelius' Favorite Stoic?” and “The Daily Routine That Built Marcus Aurelius.”

All episodes at dailystoic.com →

Daily Stoic · wisdom for today

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The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.

— Marcus Aurelius · Meditations 5.20

A new passage each day · the sources Ryan returns to. Talk them over in the conference →

912 Main St · Bastrop, Texas

The Painted Porch

Ryan and Samantha Holiday opened this small, fiercely curated bookshop in downtown Bastrop in the thick of the pandemic — “the craziest thing we ever did,” he's called it. Instead of stocking everything, they stock a few hundred titles worth changing your life over.

It's our local. Staff picks, a Quarterly Classics book club, a wall of Stoic medallions, even records. If you're passing through Bastrop, go — and say hello to the porch for us.

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📷 A fan’s essay: their banned-books shelf →

Where912 Main Street, Bastrop, TX 78602 — about 30 minutes southeast of Austin.
HoursSun–Thu 10–7, Fri–Sat 10–8 (check the shop for holidays).
The betA curated, physical bookstore in a small town — opened through the pandemic and the 2021 Texas freeze.
AlsoCurbside pickup and nationwide shipping of hand-picked reading lists.

The through-line

Ideas he carries into the world

Ryan's gift is translation — taking the Stoics off the shelf and into ordinary life. A few of the ideas he returns to again and again:

Amor fati

Love your fate. Don't just accept what happens — make the most of it, as if you'd chosen it.

Memento mori

Remember you will die. Not morbid — clarifying. It's why he sells that medallion; it puts today in scale.

The dichotomy of control

Focus only on what's up to you — your judgments and actions. Let the rest go. Straight from Epictetus.

Premeditatio malorum

Rehearse what could go wrong, on purpose, so nothing lands as a surprise and nothing owns you.

Ego is the enemy

Of mastering a craft, of real insight, of longevity. Confidence is earned; ego is stolen.

The obstacle is the way

Every obstacle carries the opportunity to improve your condition. The path through is the path.

What still amazes us

Two thousand years before the first psychology lab, the Stoics worked out a framework for living that has held up remarkably well — and much of it has since been confirmed by modern science and psychology. Cognitive behavioral therapy borrows almost directly from Epictetus.

No grant. No lab. No two hundred paid undergraduates. Just a handful of people thinking carefully about how to live — and getting it right.

1987 – today

A short life so far

16 June 1987Born in Sacramento County, California.
~2006Drops out of UC Riverside at 19 to apprentice under author Robert Greene (The 48 Laws of Power).
Late 2000sBecomes Director of Marketing at American Apparel — and a student of media manipulation.
2012Publishes Trust Me, I'm Lying, an exposé of the media machine he'd worked inside.
2014The Obstacle Is the Way quietly becomes a word-of-mouth phenomenon — passed around locker rooms and boardrooms alike.
2016Ego Is the Enemy and The Daily Stoic arrive; the Daily Stoic email list begins its climb to millions.
~2020Opens The Painted Porch in Bastrop, Texas, with his wife Samantha — settling on a ranch outside town.
2021–2025Completes the four-book Stoic Virtues series: Courage, Discipline, Right Thing, Right Now and Wisdom Takes Work.
TodayWrites, runs the bookshop and the Daily Stoic, records the podcast — and remains, as Texas Monthly put it, the “Stoic King of Bastrop County.”

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